How everyone behaves at a gathering, how to look after yourself, what to do if something goes wrong, and where to turn in an emergency. Written for members — the hosting terms are a separate page.
In an emergency
If someone is in danger right now, call your local emergency number first. We are not an emergency service, and nobody here is on call overnight.
Members and facilitators accept the same code when they join. Breaking it removes a person from the platform.
Consent is continuous.No hands-on adjustment without asking first, every time. Anyone may leave any practice at any moment.
No medical claims.No promises to cure, no advice to stop treatment, no diagnosis.
Say what will happen.Listings describe the practice honestly, including anything intense.
Hold confidence.What is shared in a circle stays in the circle — facilitators and attendees equally.
No recruitment.A gathering is not a route into another organisation, a lineage requiring commitment, or a sales funnel.
Power is not romance.Facilitators do not pursue seekers.
Looking after yourself
Read the whole listing before you book. It should say plainly what will happen, including anything intense.
Before the gathering, tell the facilitator about anything in your health that matters for the practice.
You may step out of any practice at any moment, and you never have to explain why.
Any hands-on adjustment needs your yes, every time. You may say no, or change your mind.
If something goes wrong
Any gathering or person can be reported in two taps, from the listing or from your record of it. A named person on the safety team reads every report the day it arrives, working from a queue that records every decision and cannot be edited afterwards.
If you paid, your refund is started immediately — before any conclusion is reached and regardless of the facilitator’s own policy. You are never asked to speak to the person you reported. You may ask us not to share your name, and we will investigate without it, though that sometimes limits what we can establish.
You hear the outcome in writing within 24 hours and again when the case closes. Depending on what we find we may add a condition to a listing, require a change, suspend a facilitator while we look further, or remove them permanently. Where a report describes something criminal we will say so plainly and support you in taking it to the police; we are not a substitute for them.